Able Quote by Catherynne M. Valente
“I wouldn't even consider it if I were you. But then if I were you, I would not be me, and if I were not me, I would not be able to advise you, and if I were unable to advise you, you'd do as you like, so you might as well do as you like and have done with it.”
About This Quote
Self‑identity and advice are intertwined; if you change, your guidance loses relevance.
In simple terms: Identity shapes advice; change alters it.
Recognize how personal change affects counsel.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- coaching
- mentoring
- self‑help
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you needed to revise your advice?
- How does self‑knowledge influence your guidance?
Advice may become outdated as you evolve.