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Them Quotes by Marshall B. Rosenberg
- I recommend allowing others the opportunity to fully express themselves before turning our attention to solutions or requests for relief. When we proceed too quickly…
- By maintaining our attention on what's going on within others, we offer them a chance to fully explore and express their interior selves. We would…
- With empathy, I'm fully with them, and not full of them - that's sympathy.
- To be able to hear our own feelings and needs and to empathize with them can free us from depression.
- Time and again, people transcend the paralyzing effects of psychological pain when they have sufficient contact with someone who can hear them empathically.
- If the other persons behavior is not in harmony with my own needs, the more I empathize with them and their needs, the more likely…
- The best way I can get understanding from another person is to give this person the understanding, too. If I want them to hear my…
- NVC enhances inner communication by helping us translate negative internal messages into feelings and needs. Our ability to distinguish our own feelings and needs and…
- Upset? Ask yourself what this person does that is a trigger for judging them?
- Whether I praise or criticize someone's action, I imply that I am their judge, that I'm engaged in rating them or what they have done.
- Labeling and diagnosis is a catastrophic way to communicate. Telling other people what's wrong with them greatly reduces, almost to zero, the probability that we're…
- The number one reason that we don't get our needs met, we don't express them. We express judgments. If we do express needs, the number…
- You can't make your kids do anything. All you can do is make them wish they had. And then, they will make you wish you…
- Peace requires something far more difficult than revenge or merely turning the other cheek; it requires empathizing with the fears and unmet needs that provide…
- We want people to change because they see better ways of meeting their needs at less cost, not because of fear that we're going to…
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- Both oligarch and tyrant mistrust the people, and therefore deprive them of their arms. — Aristotle
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- Bring your desires down to your present means. Increase them only when your increased means permit. — Aristotle
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