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London Quote by Carolyn Heilbrun

“New York is not like London, a now-and-then place to many people. You can either not live in New York or not live anyplace else. One is either a lover or hater.” quote by Carolyn Heilbrun
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“New York is not like London, a now-and-then place to many people. You can either not live in New York or not live anyplace else. One is either a lover or hater.”

Carolyn Heilbrun

About This Quote

Source Essay: Women and Language, 1975

The quote contrasts New York’s intense, polarizing appeal with other places, suggesting people either love or hate it, not both.

In simple terms: New York forces a love‑or‑hate stance.

Key Takeaway

Embrace the city’s energy or choose another.

Themes

city life polarization choice identity urban culture

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

observational critical

When to use this quote

  • relocating for work
  • travel planning
  • urban living decisions
  • seeking community

Key Concepts

existentialism place attachment social identity

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you feel forced to choose love or hate for a place?
  • How does this binary view affect your decisions?
A Different Perspective

Not everyone experiences such binary feelings; some find nuance.

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