Asked Quote by Candace Bushnell
““then why sell?" James had asked. "have to," Redmond said. "if I want to get married and have children and live in this city, I have to." "since when do you want to get married and have kids?" James asked. "since now. Life gets boring when you're middle-aged. You can't keep doing the same thing. You look like an asshole. You ever notice that?" Redmond had asked.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Sex and the City by Candace Bushnell, 1996
A character argues that personal fulfillment requires bold life changes, even if they seem risky or socially unconventional.
In simple terms: Changing life requires bold choices.
Key Takeaway
Embrace change for growth.
Themes
relationships
midlife
risk
fulfillment
social expectations
Mood
reflective
anxious
hopeful
Type
conversational
narrative
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career change
- marriage decisions
- family planning
- urban living
- midlife crisis
Key Concepts
existentialism
personal agency
identity
conformity
Questions to Reflect On
- What change are you avoiding?
- How do societal expectations shape your choices?
A Different Perspective
Risk may lead to instability or regret if not carefully considered.
