Christian Quote by C. S. Lewis
“Post-Christian man is not the same as Pre-Christian man. He is as far removed as virgin is from widow: there is nothing in common except want of a spouse: but there is a great difference between a spouse-to-be and a spouse lost.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Four Loves, 1960
Pre‑ and post‑Christian identities differ fundamentally, yet both seek companionship, highlighting the contrast between potential and loss.
In simple terms: Christian identity changes, but desire for partnership remains.
Key Takeaway
Recognize how loss reshapes identity.
Themes
faith
identity
loss
desire
relationship
Mood
reflective
somber
Type
theological
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- spiritual growth
- grief processing
Key Concepts
theology
psychology
human nature
Questions to Reflect On
- How does faith alter personal relationships?
- What does “spouse‑to‑be” versus “spouse lost” reveal about longing?
A Different Perspective
The analogy may oversimplify complex theological shifts.
