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Adam Quote by C. S. Lewis

“[Milton's] argument is (a) St. Augustine was wrong in thinking God's only purpose in giving Adam a female, instead of a male, companion, was copulation. For (b) there is a "peculiar comfort" in the society of man and woman "beside, (i.e. in addition to, apart from) the genial bed"; and (c) we know…” quote by C. S. Lewis
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“[Milton's] argument is (a) St. Augustine was wrong in thinking God's only purpose in giving Adam a female, instead of a male, companion, was copulation. For (b) there is a "peculiar comfort" in the society of man and woman "beside, (i.e. in addition to, apart from) the genial bed"; and (c) we know from Scripture that something analogous to "play" or "slackening the cords" occurs even in God. That is why the Song of Songs describes a thousand raptures...far on the hither side of carnal enjoyment.”

C. S. Lewis

About This Quote

Source Book: The Four Loves by C. S. Lewis, 1960

Lewis argues that God’s purpose for creating woman was not merely sexual, but to provide companionship, comfort, and a deeper relational joy beyond physical intimacy.

In simple terms: Woman offers companionship and deeper joy beyond sex.

Key Takeaway

Value relational intimacy over mere physicality.

Themes

companionship spirituality gender roles

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical theological

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • spiritual direction
  • gender studies
  • relationship building

Key Concepts

theology philosophy anthropology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does companionship differ from sexual attraction?
  • Can relational joy exist without physical intimacy?
A Different Perspective

Physical intimacy alone cannot fulfill the deeper need for relational comfort.

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