Adam Quote by C. S. Lewis
“[Milton's] argument is (a) St. Augustine was wrong in thinking God's only purpose in giving Adam a female, instead of a male, companion, was copulation. For (b) there is a "peculiar comfort" in the society of man and woman "beside, (i.e. in addition to, apart from) the genial bed"; and (c) we know from Scripture that something analogous to "play" or "slackening the cords" occurs even in God. That is why the Song of Songs describes a thousand raptures...far on the hither side of carnal enjoyment.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Four Loves by C. S. Lewis, 1960
Lewis argues that God’s purpose for creating woman was not merely sexual, but to provide companionship, comfort, and a deeper relational joy beyond physical intimacy.
In simple terms: Woman offers companionship and deeper joy beyond sex.
Value relational intimacy over mere physicality.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- spiritual direction
- gender studies
- relationship building
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does companionship differ from sexual attraction?
- Can relational joy exist without physical intimacy?
Physical intimacy alone cannot fulfill the deeper need for relational comfort.