Anger Quote by Bronnie Ware
““A Buddhist story is that a man came shouting angrily at Buddha, who remained unaffected by him. When questioned by others as to how he remained calm and unaffected, Buddha answered with a question. “If someone gives you a gift and you choose not to receive it, to whom then does the gift belong?” Of course it stays with the giver.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Top Five Regrets of the Dying, 2011
Buddha teaches that refusing a gift is equivalent to keeping it; the giver retains ownership, illustrating the futility of rejection.
In simple terms: Rejecting a gift means you still have it.
Accept gifts without resistance to avoid unnecessary conflict.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- meditation practice
- conflict resolution
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does accepting what is offered change your perspective?
- What does “gift” symbolize in everyday life?
Rejection can create unnecessary tension.