Amazing things Quote by Blanche Wiesen Cook
“Eleanor Roosevelt doesn't ever do anything that is going to hurt her husband. She tries things out on him. She gets permission to do things. The amazing thing, I think, historically, is that he says, "Go do it. If you can make this happen, I'll follow you."”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Eleanor Roosevelt Story by Blanche Wiesen Cook, 1990
Eleanor Roosevelt tested ideas with her husband, seeking his support before acting, showing partnership in decision‑making.
In simple terms: She got his permission before trying new things.
Key Takeaway
Seek partner support before bold actions.
Themes
collaboration
trust
leadership
Mood
thoughtful
reflective
Type
advice
historical
When to use this quote
- marriage
- career projects
- social initiatives
Key Concepts
partnership dynamics
decision making
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance support with autonomy?
- When is it essential to seek approval?
A Different Perspective
Reliance on a partner may limit independent agency.
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