Break Quote by Bernard of Clairvaux
“A pretext is never lacking to him who would break with a friend.”
About This Quote
Source Letter: Bernard of Clairvaux, 1155
A pretext is always present for those who wish to end a friendship.
In simple terms: Excuses appear when ending friendships.
Beware of rationalizing breakups.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- personal boundaries
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What motives truly drive ending friendships?
- How can you end ties respectfully?
Not all breakups are justified by pretexts.