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Contradicting Quote by Benjamin Franklin

“Those disputing, contradicting, and confuting people are generally unfortunate in their affairs. They get victory, sometimes, but they never get good will, which would be of more use to them.” quote by Benjamin Franklin
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“Those disputing, contradicting, and confuting people are generally unfortunate in their affairs. They get victory, sometimes, but they never get good will, which would be of more use to them.”

Benjamin Franklin

About This Quote

Source Letter to a friend, 1750

People who argue and contradict may win battles but lose goodwill, which is more valuable for long‑term success.

In simple terms: Winning arguments isn’t as important as earning trust.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize building relationships over winning debates.

Themes

conflict relationships ethics

Mood

thoughtful cautionary

Type

ethical pragmatic

When to use this quote

  • business negotiations
  • political discourse
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

reputation social capital

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance assertiveness with empathy?
  • What costs do you incur by alienating others?
A Different Perspective

Goodwill can be hard to regain once lost.

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