Contradicting Quote by Benjamin Franklin
“Those disputing, contradicting, and confuting people are generally unfortunate in their affairs. They get victory, sometimes, but they never get good will, which would be of more use to them.”
About This Quote
Source Letter to a friend, 1750
People who argue and contradict may win battles but lose goodwill, which is more valuable for long‑term success.
In simple terms: Winning arguments isn’t as important as earning trust.
Prioritize building relationships over winning debates.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- business negotiations
- political discourse
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance assertiveness with empathy?
- What costs do you incur by alienating others?
Goodwill can be hard to regain once lost.