Barbara Quote by Barbara Mikulski
“We don't have a caucus, because we differ on so many views. Some of us are pro-choice, some are not. We'll take the issue of drilling, for example: Lisa Murkowski would want to drill in ANWAR, Maria Cantwell, Barbara Boxer, and most of us would say no, and so we don't. But we get together once a month for dinner, and we have three rules: no memos, no staff, and no leaks; and we get together for friendship. In fact, we're having a dinner tonight. We just have drinks and talk about life and times.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Interview, 2015, US Senate Committee
A group with diverse political views can maintain unity through informal, rule‑based gatherings focused on personal connection rather than policy debate.
In simple terms: People with different opinions can stay together by meeting socially with clear boundaries.
Key Takeaway
Foster informal, rule‑driven gatherings to bridge ideological gaps.
Themes
unity
dialogue
politics
friendship
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- monthly dinner
- team building
- cross‑party meetings
- community events
Key Concepts
social cohesion
group dynamics
conflict avoidance
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we ensure diverse voices are heard beyond casual settings?
- What boundaries help keep discussions constructive?
A Different Perspective
May informal settings mask deeper disagreements that later resurface.
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