Adults Quote by Barbara Kingsolver
“Children model the behavior of adults, on whatever scale is available to them. Ours are growing up in a nation whose most important, influential men - from presidents to the coolest film characters - solve problems by killing people. ... We have taught our children in a thousand ways, sometimes with flag-waving and sometimes with a laugh track, that the bad guy deserves to die.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver, 1998
Children imitate adult actions; when adults resolve conflict with violence, children learn that killing is acceptable.
In simple terms: Kids copy adult behavior, especially violent solutions.
Key Takeaway
Promote non‑violent role models for children.
Themes
violence
role models
socialization
media influence
Mood
concerned
hopeful
critical
Type
observational
ethical
cultural
When to use this quote
- parenting
- education
- media production
- policy making
- community programs
Key Concepts
behavioral learning
ethical development
cultural norms
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we increase exposure to peaceful conflict resolution?
- What responsibilities do creators have in shaping behavior?
A Different Perspective
Violent role models are not the only influences; many children also encounter compassionate examples.
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