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I think there is a dissonance between how much is expected…

“I think there is a dissonance between how much is expected of you as a young person, whether you are a man or a woman: you are supposed to go to university; you get a master's degree, maybe two, particularly if you come from the middle class.” quote by Ayobami Adebayo
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“I think there is a dissonance between how much is expected of you as a young person, whether you are a man or a woman: you are supposed to go to university; you get a master's degree, maybe two, particularly if you come from the middle class.”

Ayobami Adebayo

About This Quote

Source Interview: The New Yorker, “The Burden of Expectations”, 2022

Society pressures young adults to pursue extensive higher education, especially from middle‑class families, creating tension between expectations and personal goals.

In simple terms: Young people feel forced to get many degrees.

Key Takeaway

Question whether more degrees always help.

Themes

education social pressure class career expectations

Mood

anxious reflective

Type

advice critical contemplative

When to use this quote

  • college planning
  • career counseling
  • family discussions
  • financial planning

Key Concepts

credentialism social mobility identity formation

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you truly need another degree?
  • How can you define success beyond school?
A Different Perspective

Higher education may not guarantee better outcomes for everyone.

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