The Coach is the antidote to the Victim's Rescuer in the DDT...Mainly, a Coach supports, assists, and facilitates the Creator in manifesting… — David Emerald Womeldorff Antidote Copy Share Image
These people are often authoritarian and rigid in their views, exerting power over others in an effort to keep others from having… — David Emerald Womeldorff Effort Copy Share Image
Every Victim requires a Persecutor. But the Persecutor isn't always necessarily a person. The Persecutor could also be a condition or a… — David Emerald Womeldorff Burning Copy Share Image
All victims have experienced a loss-a thwarted desire or aspiration-even if they're not aware of it. — David Emerald Womeldorff Aspiration Copy Share Image
The way you talk about yourself and your life-your story-has a great deal to do with what shows up in your day-to-day… — David Emerald Womeldorff About yourself Copy Share Image
Persecutors, like Victims, act out of fear. The may seem fearless, but actually Persecutors are almost always former Victims. — David Emerald Womeldorff Fear Copy Share Image
A Rescuer isn't always a person. Addictions to alcohol or drugs, sexual addiction, workaholism-all the ways we numb out-can rescue the Victim… — David Emerald Womeldorff Addiction Copy Share Image
Whatever I hold in my mind tends to manifest itself in my life. What we believe and assume creates most of our… — David Emerald Womeldorff Assuming Copy Share Image
Victims may be defensive, submissive, over-accommodating to others, passive-aggressive in conflict, dependent on others for self-worth, overly sensitive, even manipulative. They're often… — David Emerald Womeldorff Aggressive Copy Share Image
The focus in the Creator Orientation is on a Vision or an Outcome. You orient your thoughts and actions toward creating what… — David Emerald Womeldorff Action Copy Share Image
Some of the steps you take may end up being detours or out-and-out mistakes. By staying focused on your vision, though, you'll… — David Emerald Womeldorff Creating Copy Share Image
All of life's experiences are teachers in some sense, challenging us to grow and evolve. Although the Persecutor certainly provokes a reaction,… — David Emerald Womeldorff Acquire Copy Share Image
Frozen in fear, you avoid responsibility because you think your experience is beyond your control. This stance keeps you from making decisions,… — David Emerald Womeldorff Decision Copy Share Image
Persecutors fear loss of control. Rescuers fear loss of purpose. Rescuers need Victims-someone to protect or fix-to bolster their self-esteem. — David Emerald Womeldorff Esteem Copy Share Image
When you inhabit any of these three roles, you're reacting to fear of victimhood, loss of control, or loss of purpose. You're… — David Emerald Womeldorff Circumstances Copy Share Image
The way you create any outcome in your life is to hold the vision of your deepest desires. At the same time,… — David Emerald Womeldorff Behinds Copy Share Image
TED-The Empowerment Dynamic-counteracts the poison of DDT, the Dreaded Dram Triangle. TED is the antidote for DDT. — David Emerald Womeldorff Antidote Copy Share Image
Give yourself the gift of time in coming to answers for your life...It takes time, and a lot of introspection and soul-searching,… — David Emerald Womeldorff Answers Copy Share Image
A Creator is vision-focused and passion-motivated. To really live into your Creator self, you are called to do the inner work necessary… — David Emerald Womeldorff Creator Copy Share Image
Your life is a kind of laboratory where you're constantly experimenting with your own higher knowing, always increasing your capacity to design… — David Emerald Womeldorff Capacity Copy Share Image
Living from the Creator Orientation is actually more challenging. In the Victim Orientation, I didn't have to exercise conscious choice; I just… — David Emerald Womeldorff Challenges Copy Share Image