“All of us lived life when sex was the farthest thing from our minds. Try to remember the careless freedom of play,… — Alexandra Katehakis Daily grind Copy Share Image
“Right where you are, the potential of the universe is.” — Alexandra Katehakis Being Copy Share Image
“The process of dissociation is an elegant mechanism built into the human psychological system as a form of escape from (sometimes literally)… — Alexandra Katehakis Dead inside Copy Share Image
“Remember, sex is never a thing you just had. Sex is the intercourse, the merging or convergence, of who the two of… — Alexandra Katehakis Depth Copy Share Image
“We all know the experience of sitting in bed feeling exhilarated one day and lackluster the very next. The issue is not… — Alexandra Katehakis Apathy Copy Share Image
“There are marvelous sea creatures whose existences can be viewed only within the deep blue sea, and similarly we all have dear… — Alexandra Katehakis Blue sea Copy Share Image
“Endow yourself with healthy self-esteem. What is the feeling tone in your life that radiates in you and makes you shine, that… — Alexandra Katehakis Esteem Copy Share Image
“It’s crucial to practice self-empathy, for trust can’t be willed into existence. That didn’t work when our caregivers tried to impose their… — Alexandra Katehakis Caregivers Copy Share Image
“To sober up seems to many like making life “so serious,” as if seriousness precluded joy, warmth, spontaneity and fun. But there… — Alexandra Katehakis Delusion Copy Share Image
“Yes, sex is troublesome and beautiful. And only when we drop our expectations, and know that we'll have moments of great sex… — Alexandra Katehakis Expectations Copy Share Image
“If we’re wrapping ourselves up to conceal any vulnerability, whatever happens to us has to go through all those extra layers. Sometimes… — Alexandra Katehakis Facade Copy Share Image
“To develop emotional and erotic intelligence we need to practice enlarging our inner passion at every moment. It doesn’t matter what’s going… — Alexandra Katehakis Accomplishment Copy Share Image
“Many lovers are ‘off to the races:’ Hurtling towards orgasm, they miss the excitement of sensual meanderings along the way.” — Alexandra Katehakis Excitement Copy Share Image
“Just as a heroin addict chases a substance-induced high, sex addicts are bingeing on chemicals — in this case, their own hormones.” — Alexandra Katehakis Binge Copy Share Image
“Sexual distortions carry strong undertones of prejudice—sexism, racism and homophobia—that rob individuals of their individuality. Common stereotypes include “men are all dogs,”… — Alexandra Katehakis Distortion Copy Share Image
“Once it arrives, erotic sex cannot be chased or grasped at, for it shows itself when you’re not looking.” — Alexandra Katehakis Erotic Copy Share Image
“Find the pitch and pace and syllables and words you love to hear. Delight your own senses, and self-romance.” — Alexandra Katehakis Delight Copy Share Image
“Great spiritual teachers throughout the ages have stated that orgasm is the closest some people come to a spiritual experience because of… — Alexandra Katehakis Divine Copy Share Image
“Tread lightly on your partner’s heart. It was given to you for safekeeping.” — Alexandra Katehakis Heart Copy Share Image
“If we don’t honor our truth, how can we expect anyone else to do so?” — Alexandra Katehakis Truth Copy Share Image
“Much healing can occur through the sexual act with a person you love and trust if the two of you can stay… — Alexandra Katehakis Healing Copy Share Image