Approval Quote by Ariana Grande
“If anything, we should feel sorry for the people who want us to feel bad about ourselves, because they are the ones struggling for approval. In middle school, bullies tortured other kids because they thought it would make people like them more.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Mental Health and Self‑Worth, Ariana Grande, 2022
People who try to make us feel bad are often insecure and seeking validation themselves.
In simple terms: Bullies project their own doubts onto others.
Key Takeaway
Recognize that harsh criticism reflects the critic’s insecurity.
Themes
self‑esteem
bullying
validation
empathy
Mood
empathetic
cautious
Type
motivational
reflective
When to use this quote
- school environment
- online comments
- workplace feedback
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
insecurity
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we internalize others’ negative views?
- How can we protect self‑worth against external judgment?
A Different Perspective
Not all criticism is rooted in insecurity; some may be genuine.
