Human heart Quote by Anthony de Mello
“People mistakenly assume that their thinking is done by their head; it is actually done by the heart which first dictates the conclusion, then commands the head to provide the reasoning that will defend it.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Spiritual Teachings of Anthony de Mello, 1990
Thoughts are first shaped by emotions, then rationalized by the mind, showing feelings drive conclusions.
In simple terms: Feelings guide conclusions, mind justifies them.
Recognize emotional origins of your reasoning.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal decisions
- conflict resolution
- leadership
- creative problem solving
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How often do you question the emotional basis of a belief?
- Can you separate feeling from logic in a tough choice?
Emotions can mislead; rationalization may ignore facts.