Good enough Quote by Anonymous
““There are many marital therapists who have high expectations for what is possible in a marriage...I am not opposed to such views, but I personally take a different one. I am a "plumber"... I have often described my goal as fostering the "good enough marriage". I am likely to think a marriage is good enough if the two spouses choose to have coffee and pastries on a Saturday afternoon and really enjoy the conversation, even if they don't heal each other's childhood wounds, or don't always have wall-socket, mind-blowing, skyrocket sex.””
About This Quote
A “good enough” marriage values everyday connection over idealized perfection, accepting imperfections while nurturing shared moments.
In simple terms: Marriages thrive on simple, shared joy.
Prioritize everyday connection.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- couples counseling
- relationship building
- daily rituals
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What small moments make your partnership feel good enough?
- How do you balance expectations with reality?