““On a biological level, women do care more about finding a male who has the ability and willingness to care for them. But the extent to which he is able to support a female is measured by his confidence, while his will to care is found in his charm, and both traits are reflected in how much responsibility he takes. It is these three personality traits themselves and their appearance in a male that turn females on and bring a male his success with women, not his achievements or wealth. And the level of caring that is necessary, and what it means to care for a woman, is very far from having a successful career or paying her bills””