First time Quote by Anonymous
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“Lady Dellwyn ... for the first time began to entertain some suspicions that she had a heart to bestow. Not that she was actuated by that romantic passion which creates indifference to every other object and makes all happiness to consist in pleasing the beloved person, [but] only overstraining delicacy so much as to feel it almost a crime to charm any other.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Unknown title, early 20th century fiction
She experiences a newfound romantic feeling that feels almost forbidden, causing her to shy away from other attractions.
In simple terms: A sudden love feels like a crime, limiting other interests.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and balance intense emotions.
Themes
love
jealousy
self‑restraint
Mood
conflicted
reflective
Type
romantic
psychological
When to use this quote
- dating
- personal relationships
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
romantic idealism
emotional conflict
Questions to Reflect On
- Is this feeling genuine or fleeting?
- How can she stay open to other joys?
A Different Perspective
Intense passion can lead to isolation and neglect of other aspects of life.
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