““Consider, for example, your home, career, or relationship. You can have a nice house, a good job, and a rewarding partnership. Yet part of you may be yearning for more. Do not berate yourself for being selfish, but celebrate your natural aspiration for expansion. This does not mean you need to get a new home, job, or mate. But you may need to look for ways to improve on what you have and create your richer desired scenario.””