Converses Quote by Anne-Therese de Marguenat de Courcelles
“The love of esteem is the life and soul of society; it unites us to one another: I want your approbation, you stand in need of mine. By forsaking the converse of men, we forsake the virtues necessary for society; for when one is alone, one is apt to grow negligent; the world forces you to have a guard over yourself.”
About This Quote
Source Treat: Unknown, possibly personal correspondence
Esteem and mutual approval bind society; lacking it leads to neglect and isolation, requiring self‑guarding
In simple terms: Approval connects people; without it, we become careless
Key Takeaway
Seek and give genuine appreciation
Themes
social cohesion
esteem
interdependence
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- teamwork
- community building
- personal relationships
- leadership
Key Concepts
Reciprocity
social contract
psychology of approval
Questions to Reflect On
- How does seeking approval affect personal integrity?
- What practices foster mutual respect without dependency?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on external validation can undermine self‑worth
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