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Heal Quote by Anne Lamott

“To heal, it seems we have to stand in the middle of the horror, at the foot of the cross, and wait out another’s suffering where that person can see us. To be honest, that sucks. It’s the worst, even if you are the mother of God.” quote by Anne Lamott
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““To heal, it seems we have to stand in the middle of the horror, at the foot of the cross, and wait out another’s suffering where that person can see us. To be honest, that sucks. It’s the worst, even if you are the mother of God.””

Anne Lamott

About This Quote

Compassionate presence often requires sharing in another’s pain, which can be emotionally draining, especially for those seen as divine or idealized.

In simple terms: Sharing suffering can be draining.

Key Takeaway

Offer empathy while protecting your own wellbeing.

Themes

compassion pain spirituality

Mood

somber reflective

Type

advice reflection

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • grief support groups
  • volunteering

Key Concepts

empathy sacrifice humanity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you set boundaries while being present?
  • What self‑care practices support compassionate work?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing caregivers can cause burnout.

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