Andre-aciman Quote by André Aciman
““We may never speak about this again. But I hope you’ll never hold it against me that we did. I will have been a terrible father if, one day, you’d want to speak to me and felt that the door was shut or not sufficiently open.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Call Me By Your Name by André Aciman, 2007
A father fears that his emotional distance will be seen as betrayal, and worries about being judged for past neglect.
In simple terms: Father worries about being judged and
Themes
Be open and honest with loved ones.
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
personal
emotional
When to use this quote
- attachment
- vulnerability
- parental responsibility
Key Concepts
family
communication
guilt
Practical Applications
- family dinner
- therapy sessions
- reconciliation
- confession
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you rebuild trust after emotional distance?
- What steps can you take to keep doors open?
A Different Perspective
The quote may overstate personal guilt, ignoring mutual responsibility.
