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Shame Quote by André Aciman

“Is this one blushing with shame? No, she would say, this one is too young still, youth has no shame, shame comes with age.” quote by André Aciman
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““Is this one blushing with shame? No, she would say, this one is too young still, youth has no shame, shame comes with age.””

André Aciman

About This Quote

Source Novel: Call Me By Your Name, 2007

Youth lacks shame; shame emerges with age, reflecting growing self‑awareness.

In simple terms: Young people aren't ashamed; shame comes later.

Key Takeaway

Understand shame as a sign of maturity.

Themes

growth shame age self‑awareness

Mood

reflective poetic

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • career milestones
  • social interactions

Key Concepts

Psychology development cultural norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • When does shame become useful?
  • How does age affect self‑perception?
A Different Perspective

Shame can also be protective.

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