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Command Quote by Anais Nin

“I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God…” quote by Anais Nin
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“I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated”

Anais Nin

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Diary of Anais Nin, 1930s

A woman expresses a yearning for deep, consensual domination as part of her feminine identity.

In simple terms: She wants to be powerfully guided by a man.

Key Takeaway

Explore consensual power dynamics safely.

Themes

desire power gender sexuality

Mood

intense confessional

Type

erotic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • intimate relationships
  • artistic expression
  • personal empowerment

Key Concepts

feminine identity dominance submission

Questions to Reflect On

  • What boundaries ensure healthy dominance?
  • How does power exchange affect personal agency?
A Different Perspective

Such dynamics require clear consent and mutual respect.

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