Los angeles Quote by Amy Tan
““This was such a big leap in logic, between what I said and what he said, that I thought we were like two people standing apart on separate mountain peaks, recklessly leaning forward to throw stones at one another, unaware of the dangerous chasm that separated us. But now I realize Ted knew what he was saying all along. He wanted to show me the rift. Because later that evening he called from Los Angeles and said he wanted a divorce. Ever since Ted's been gone, I've been thinking, even if I had expected it, even if I had known what I was going to do with my life, it still would have knocked the wind out of me. When something that violent hits you, you can't help but lose your balance and fall. And after you pick yourself up, you realize you can't trust anybody to save you--not your husband, not your mother, not God. So what can you do to stop yourself from tilting and falling all over again?””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Joy Luck Club, 1989
A sudden, painful revelation can shatter trust, forcing one to rebuild resilience and self‑reliance.
In simple terms: Loss of trust feels like a fall.
Key Takeaway
Learn to stand on your own.
Themes
loss
trust
resilience
Mood
somber
hopeful
Type
psychological
inspirational
When to use this quote
- breakups
- family crises
- career setbacks
- personal growth
Key Concepts
psychology
betrayal
self‑reliance
Questions to Reflect On
- What supports help you regain balance?
- How can you protect yourself from future falls?
A Different Perspective
Recovery takes time and support.
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