High school Quote by Amy Lane
““My dad started shouting,” he said, hearing the sharpness, the anger, in the background all over again. “He told her to ask me if I was still a fag.” Casey swallowed and looked at Joe helplessly. “I mean, I turned down a date with Dev to make this phone call, right? He’s… he’s getting damned good at the hand job… thought we might progress from there… and she’s asking me if I’m still ‘one of them’ and I’m thinking, ‘One of what? A boy? A high school student? What the hell am I one of?’ and I say, ‘I still like boys, Mom,’ and suddenly Dad’s got the phone and he’s shouting at me that I didn’t get to come home, ever, if I was still a sissy little—””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Unbearable Lightness of Being? (fictional excerpt), null
A teen grapples with identity, family conflict, and societal labels.
In simple terms: Teen struggles with identity and family pressure.
Key Takeaway
Seek authentic self-acceptance despite external judgment.
Themes
identity
family
sexuality
conflict
Mood
conflicted
empathetic
Type
narrative
dialogue
When to use this quote
- school environment
- family dinner
- online support groups
- counseling sessions
Key Concepts
self-acceptance
social stigma
coming of age
Questions to Reflect On
- How can families support LGBTQ+ youth?
- What coping strategies help in hostile environments?
A Different Perspective
Family hostility can impede personal growth.
![“The parents are making threatening noises, turning dinner into performance art, with dad doing his Arnold Schwarzenegger imitation and mom playing Glenn Close in one of her psycho roles. I am the Victim. Mom: [creepy smile] “Thought you could put one over us, did you, Melinda? Big high school…” quote by Laurie Halse Anderson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/fb4/laurie-halse-anderson-623_art_the-parents-are-making-threatening-noise_1134061.jpg)
