Feeling empty Quote by Amos Oz
““There are lots of women who are attracted to tyrannical men. Like moths to a flame. And there are some women who do not need a hero or even a stormy lover but a friend. Just remember that when you grow up. Steer clear of the tryant lovers, and try to locate the ones who are looking for a man as a friend, not because they are feeling empty themselves but because they enjoy making you full too. And remember that friendship between a woman and a man is something much more precious and rare than love: love is actually something quite gross and even clumsy compared to friendship. Friendship includes a measure of sensitivity, attentiveness, generosity, and a finely tuned sense of moderation.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Question of Love, 1995
True connection is rooted in friendship, not drama; genuine love grows from mutual respect and balance.
In simple terms: Friendship is the foundation of lasting love.
Key Takeaway
Seek partners who are friends first.
Themes
friendship
love
balance
respect
gender dynamics
Mood
thoughtful
hopeful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- dating
- marriage
- platonic friendships
Key Concepts
emotional health
relationship counseling
personal growth
Questions to Reflect On
- What qualities define a true friend in a partner?
- How do you differentiate love from friendship?
A Different Perspective
Romantic idealization can overlook practical compatibility.
