Personal space Quote by Alicia Thompson
““Andrew would also drape his arm around my shoulders and then leave it there. Don't get me wrong, there's a thirteen-year-old girl inside of me who thrills at the fact that a boy is actually putting his arm around her. But there's also an eighteen-year-old (soon to be nineteen) who just thinks hello, it's called personal space. When the food comes that's pretty much cue to remove the arm.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky, 1999
A young woman navigates mixed feelings of excitement and boundaries when a boy shows affection, balancing youthful thrill with adult awareness of personal space.
In simple terms: Balancing excitement and personal boundaries.
Key Takeaway
Respect personal space while honoring youthful joy.
Themes
boundaries
growth
selfawareness
relationships
Mood
reflective
conflicted
Type
advice
personal narrative
When to use this quote
- first dates
- friendship gestures
- social interactions
- selfreflection
Key Concepts
adolescence
personal space
emotional regulation
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you negotiate personal space in new relationships?
- When does excitement become discomfort?
A Different Perspective
Some may view the gesture as harmless, overlooking the need for clear consent.
