Anatomy Quote by Shonda Rhimes
“At the end of the day, when it comes down to it, all we really want is to be close to somebody. So this thing where we all keep our distance and pretend not to care about each other, it's usually a load of bull. So we pick and choose who we want to remain close to, and once we've chosen those people, we tend to stick close by. No matter how much we hurt them. The people that are still with you at the end of the day, those are the ones worth keeping. And sure, sometimes close can be too close. But sometimes, that invasion of personal space, it can be exactly what you need.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Podcast "The Business of Storytelling", 2020
Human connection is essential; we seek closeness despite pretended distance, valuing those who stay despite flaws.
In simple terms: We need close relationships and they matter more than distance.
Key Takeaway
Cherish and nurture the people who remain.
Themes
relationships
vulnerability
trust
intimacy
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- friendship
- family
- romantic partnership
- team dynamics
Key Concepts
attachment theory
social bonding
Questions to Reflect On
- Who are the people you keep close despite challenges?
- How do you balance intimacy with personal space?
A Different Perspective
Close ties can become suffocating if boundaries are ignored.
