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Fourth time's the charm," she says to people who ask her…

“Fourth time's the charm," she says to people who ask her what the secret of a happy marriage is, but that's not the way she feels about it. She knows now that when you don't lose yourself in the bargain, you find you have double the love you started with, and that's one recipe that can't be…” quote by Alice Hoffman
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““Fourth time's the charm," she says to people who ask her what the secret of a happy marriage is, but that's not the way she feels about it. She knows now that when you don't lose yourself in the bargain, you find you have double the love you started with, and that's one recipe that can't be tampered with.””

Alice Hoffman

About This Quote

Authentic marriage thrives when partners retain individuality, multiplying mutual affection.

In simple terms: Self‑preservation deepens love.

Key Takeaway

Keep self, gain love.

Themes

relationships self‑identity love balance

Mood

thoughtful warm

Type

reflective advice

When to use this quote

  • couples counseling
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

marriage advice

Practical Applications

  • relationship workshops
  • self‑care guides

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does losing yourself look like in a partnership?
  • How can you nurture self while nurturing love?
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