Advice Quote by Alexandre Dumas
“Athos liked every one to exercise his own free-will. He never gave his advice before it was demanded and even then it must be demanded twice. "In general, people only ask for advice," he said "that they may not follow it or if they should follow it that they may have somebody to blame for having given it".”
About This Quote
Source Novel: *The Three Musketeers*, 1844
Athos values free will, giving advice only when asked, and twice, to avoid blame.
In simple terms: Athos respects autonomy, offering advice only when requested.
Respect others’ autonomy in guidance.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- leadership mentoring
- parental guidance
- team management
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When should you proactively offer support?
- How do you balance autonomy with responsibility?
Over‑cautiousness may leave others without needed help.