Family Quote by Alexander Pushkin
““Perhaps you'd like, you gentle fellow, To hear what I'm prepared to say On "kinfolk" and their implications? Well, here's my view of close relations: They're people whom we're bound to prize, To honor, love, and idolize, And following the old tradition, To visit come the Christmas feast, Or send a wish by mail at least; All other days they've our permission, To quite forget us if they please- So grant them, God, long life and ease!””
About This Quote
Source Poem: “The Gift” (or similar) by Alexander Pushkin, early 19th century
The speaker reflects on the expectations and obligations toward family, balancing reverence with personal freedom, and wishes them well despite occasional neglect.
In simple terms: Family ties demand respect but also allow distance; the speaker wishes them well.
Respect family but maintain personal boundaries.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- holiday gatherings
- letter writing
- family reunions
- personal space
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance duty and personal space?
- What boundaries are healthy in family relationships?
May overlook everyday needs, leading to emotional distance.