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Blame Quote by Albert Ellis

“If you would stop, really stop, damning yourself, others, and unkind conditions, you would find it almost impossible to upset yourself emotionally - about anything. Yes, anything.” quote by Albert Ellis
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“If you would stop, really stop, damning yourself, others, and unkind conditions, you would find it almost impossible to upset yourself emotionally - about anything. Yes, anything.”

Albert Ellis

About This Quote

Source Book: Reason and Emotion in Psychotherapy, Albert Ellis, 1977

Self‑judgment fuels emotional turmoil; releasing blame on self, others, and circumstances eases distress.

In simple terms: Stop blaming to calm emotions.

Key Takeaway

Let go of self‑criticism.

Themes

self‑awareness emotional health personal responsibility

Mood

reflective calm

Type

advice psychological

When to use this quote

  • stress management
  • relationship conflicts
  • personal growth
  • mental health therapy

Key Concepts

cognitive restructuring acceptance mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What judgments are you holding onto?
  • How can you practice self‑compassion today?
A Different Perspective

Hard to stop habitual self‑criticism without practice.

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