Confidence Quote by Alain de Botton
““Yet conquering distance and gaining assurances that we are needed aren't exercises to be performed only once; they have to be repeated every time there's been a break -- a day away, a busy period, an evening at work -- for every interlude has the power once again to raise the question of whether or not we are still wanted.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Course of Love, Alain de Botton, 2016
Relationships require ongoing reassurance and effort, not a one‑time commitment.
In simple terms: Relationships need continual effort.
Key Takeaway
Maintain regular connection and reassurance.
Themes
relationships
maintenance
reassurance
commitment
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- marriage
- long‑term partnership
- work relationships
Key Concepts
emotional labor
psychology
human connection
Questions to Reflect On
- What small gestures keep connection alive?
- How to avoid burnout in relational upkeep?
A Different Perspective
Continuous effort can be exhausting or feel obligatory.
