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“Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.” quote by Alain de Botton
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“Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.”

Alain de Botton

About This Quote

Source Book: The Course of Love, 2016

Affection evolves from being based on physical attraction to being tied to personal achievements as people mature.

In simple terms: Love shifts to achievement‑based affection.

Key Takeaway

Value growth alongside affection.

Themes

relationships personal development achievement psychology

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • career advancement
  • friendships
  • self‑improvement

Key Concepts

maturity dependency self‑esteem

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does achievement influence love?
  • Can affection remain unconditional?
A Different Perspective

May overlook unconditional love.

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