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Affection Quote by Marcus Tullius Cicero

“But as to the affection which anyone may have for us, it is the first demand of duty that we do most for him who loves us most; but we should measure affection, not like youngsters, by the ardour of its passion, but rather by its strength and constancy.” quote by Marcus Tullius Cicero
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“But as to the affection which anyone may have for us, it is the first demand of duty that we do most for him who loves us most; but we should measure affection, not like youngsters, by the ardour of its passion, but rather by its strength and constancy.”

Marcus Tullius Cicero

About This Quote

Source Letter: To Atticus, 44 BC

True affection is measured by consistent, reliable support rather than fleeting passion.

In simple terms: Love is shown by steady, reliable care.

Key Takeaway

Value constancy over intensity.

Themes

love duty relationships trust

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • family bonds
  • marriage
  • mentor‑mentee relationships

Key Concepts

affection strength steadiness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you demonstrate lasting support?
  • What distinguishes true loyalty from infatuation?
A Different Perspective

Passionate love can be unreliable.

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