Affection Quote by Marcus Tullius Cicero
“But as to the affection which anyone may have for us, it is the first demand of duty that we do most for him who loves us most; but we should measure affection, not like youngsters, by the ardour of its passion, but rather by its strength and constancy.”
About This Quote
Source Letter: To Atticus, 44 BC
True affection is measured by consistent, reliable support rather than fleeting passion.
In simple terms: Love is shown by steady, reliable care.
Value constancy over intensity.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendship
- family bonds
- marriage
- mentor‑mentee relationships
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you demonstrate lasting support?
- What distinguishes true loyalty from infatuation?
Passionate love can be unreliable.