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Ashamed Quote by Agnes Smedley

“Now, being a girl, I was ashamed of my body and my lack of strength. So I tried to be a man. I shot, rode, jumped, and took part in all the fights of the boys.” quote by Agnes Smedley
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“Now, being a girl, I was ashamed of my body and my lack of strength. So I tried to be a man. I shot, rode, jumped, and took part in all the fights of the boys.”

Agnes Smedley

About This Quote

Source Autobiography: My Life in China, 1937

She felt shame about her femininity and sought power by adopting masculine roles and violent pursuits.

In simple terms: She tried to become a man to escape body insecurity.

Key Takeaway

Embrace your true self instead of mimicking others.

Themes

identity gender self‑esteem masculinity empowerment

Mood

conflicted determined

Type

reflective critical

When to use this quote

  • personal growth
  • gender expression
  • self‑acceptance
  • combatting insecurity

Key Concepts

feminist theory psychology social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does society shape our view of gender strength?
  • What healthier ways can one build confidence?
A Different Perspective

Adopting harmful stereotypes can reinforce the very shame she wanted to escape.

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