“Women’s fiction” doesn’t sound like anything but a slur to my ears.” — Sheila Heti Writers-on-writing Copy Share Image
We don't know the effects we have on each other, but we have them. — Sheila Heti Effects Copy Share Image
Every choice you make has higher stakes - or that's how it feels. — Sheila Heti Choice Copy Share Image
Fiction is a way for writers to preserve their friendships and their romances! — Sheila Heti Fiction Copy Share Image
Writing makes everything else in my life okay; it makes everything make sense. — Sheila Heti Everything Copy Share Image
My feminism is just part of my being - a part of my understanding of the world. — Sheila Heti Being Copy Share Image
There's so much anxiety about being understood - and being understood through what you wear. — Sheila Heti About Copy Share Image
I do feel it. And I've felt it my whole life, that the supernatural has a role in the world. — Sheila Heti Feel Copy Share Image
I just always try to respond to what I'm most interested in at the moment - that hasn't changed. — Sheila Heti Always Copy Share Image
One good thing about being a woman is we haven't too many examples yet of what a genius looks like. It could… — Sheila Heti Being a woman Copy Share Image
There's something about a woman's life choices that invites commentary, whether it's been invited or not. — Sheila Heti About Copy Share Image
I studied art history and philosophy and took economics and political science classes. I just took whatever I wanted and I didn't… — Sheila Heti Absorbing Copy Share Image
I don't think about the reader when I'm writing, but I do when I'm editing, of course. For instance, I self-consciously didn't… — Sheila Heti Anything Copy Share Image
'The Chairs are Where the People Go' was told to me by my friend Misha Glouberman; I typed as he talked. In… — Sheila Heti Books Copy Share Image
I feel like one can have all of that as a writer; you're writing, you're reading, you're talking to interesting and intelligent… — Sheila Heti Book Copy Share Image
I think a lot of people try to edit themselves out and I think that's a big mistake, because the person being… — Sheila Heti Big mistake Copy Share Image
I find that when I'm in a relationship, I'm just so 'in it,' you couldn't even call it an art; it's such… — Sheila Heti Art Copy Share Image
In 'Sweet Days of Discipline,' the narrator, years after graduating, fortuitously encounters her old friend Frederique at a movie theatre. Frederique invites… — Sheila Heti Discipline Copy Share Image
Some of my favorite experiences of art are when I am there but my attention has wandered. I think stimulation is overrated,… — Sheila Heti Art Copy Share Image
Writing, for me, when I'm writing in the first-person, is like a form of acting. So as I'm writing, the character or… — Sheila Heti Acting Copy Share Image
“But two years into our parties, I surveyed the scene from the corner and wondered, Why are we having these parties? What… — Sheila Heti Coming together Copy Share Image
“When I strip away my dreams, what I imagine to be my potential, all the things I haven't said, what I imagine… — Sheila Heti Being Copy Share Image
I hadn't realized until this week that in [Moses'] youth he killed a man, an Egyptian, and buried him under some sandI… — Sheila Heti Asks Copy Share Image
Literature and art are one of a number of relationships I have with the world. Like you have relationships with your friends… — Sheila Heti Art Copy Share Image
I remember going over proofs of this book - my first book - back in 2001, in a bar in Toronto called… — Sheila Heti Book Copy Share Image
“There's so much beauty in this world that it's hard to begin. There are no words with which to express my gratitude… — Sheila Heti Beauty Copy Share Image
I remember very vividly a little plaid dress on which my father sewed all these hanging beads, little horses and stuff. It… — Sheila Heti Dress Copy Share Image
“Because people who live their lives this way can look forward to a single destiny, shared with others of this type -… — Sheila Heti Human life Copy Share Image
“I did value Margaux, but only now did I understand something I had not before: Margaux was not like the stars in… — Sheila Heti Stars in the sky Copy Share Image
“Sholem [a painter] was saying that freedom, for him, is having the technical facility to be able to execute whatever he wants,… — Sheila Heti Art Copy Share Image
“perhaps that’s what it’s for – self-confidence and courage and energy and peace – perhaps it’s to be used in the world.… — Sheila Heti Confidence Copy Share Image
“Most people live their entire lives with their clothes on, and even if they wanted to, couldn't take them off. Then there… — Sheila Heti Character Copy Share Image
My parents are both scientists, and I was raised without god. — Sheila Heti Catholic Copy Share Image
I always had a fantasy of meeting a girl who was as serious as I was. — Sheila Heti Fantasy Copy Share Image