“(...) just being nice is not a winning strategy. Nice sends a message that the woman is willing to sacrifice pay to be liked by others. This is why a woman needs to combine niceness with insistence, a style that… — Sheryl Sandberg Copy Share Image
“Every time I talk about ground rules someone inevitably takes these to mean that the strategy is about being nice to people. I've heard everything from “You catch more flies with honey than you do vinegar” to people attacking me… — David Akadjian Copy Share Image