“The reason we struggle with insecurity,” says Pastor Steven Furtick, “is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.” — Megan McArdle Copy Share Image
It is a vast, and pervasive, cognitive mistake to assume that people who agree with you (or disagree) do so on the same criteria… — Megan McArdle Copy Share Image
“Dweck encourages parents and teachers to praise children for their effort, rather than their intelligence, talent, or looks.” — Megan McArdle Copy Share Image
“If they’re forced into a challenge they don’t feel prepared for, they may even engage in what psychologists call “self-handicapping”: deliberately doing things that will hamper their performance in order to give themselves an excuse for not doing well. Self-handicapping can be fairly spectacular: in one study, men deliberately chose performance-inhibiting drugs when facing a task they didn’t expect to… — Megan McArdle Copy Share
We have made it impossible for children to fall very far—and in so doing, we have robbed them of the joys of climbing high. — Megan McArdle Copy Share Image
“Most of all, learning to fail well means overcoming our natural instincts to blame someone—maybe ourselves—whenever something goes wrong.” — Megan McArdle Copy Share Image
Over the years, I developed a theory about why writers are such procrastinators: We were too good in English class. This sounds crazy, but… — Megan McArdle Copy Share Image
“The alternative to villains who have done something wrong is a universe where bad things sometimes happen to people who don’t deserve them.” — Megan McArdle Copy Share Image
“...simple things, but each error made the other ones more dangerous, like sticks of kindling to a roaring fire” — megan mcardle Copy Share Image
“object is to take lots of small, manageable risks, because that, he says, is the only way to figure out what really works.” — Megan McArdle Copy Share Image
If we wanted a program to help the majority of the population, we'd offer loan guarantees to help poor people get access to reliable… — Megan McArdle Copy Share Image
“If they’re forced into a challenge they don’t feel prepared for, they may even engage in what psychologists call “self-handicapping”: deliberately doing things that… — Megan McArdle Copy Share Image
