“A successful man is emotionally restrained, keeping things close to the vest, defending your position, being in control, etcetera. If your identity is so wrapped around being that way that it prevents you from doing other things—connecting, disclosing, showing vulnerability,… — James Hamblin Copy Share Image
“It was pretty much the male code not to let your friends have too much fun if there was any chance you could throw a wrench in their good times.” — Susan Andersen Copy Share Image