'Maybe' is what gets us into trouble, because I think constantly women are saying I'll try to do it, maybe I'll do it, I'll do it if I can," and then they're feeling guilty when inevitably they can't do everything. — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
Women should feel more liberated to say you know what? I can't bake the cookies for the school bake sale because I just don't have the time. Or I'm really sorry, but I can't do this at work because I've… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I think sometimes by portraying our lives as being too perfect, as being too balanced, we're actually selling younger women a bill of goods… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I think what women are doing to themselves is that they're seeing these different images of perfection - the perfect wife, the perfect mother,… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I think one thing that women can do is to just be more honest, with themselves and with their friends, and be more willing… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I really don't see any men sitting in the corner office plotting to keep women out. All the men I know are actively trying… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
We've reached the point where the demand for rules is about to replace the demand for chaos. — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I certainly wouldn't go back and blame feminism, because all that feminism was really trying to do, which was huge, was to create a… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
It's oppressive. ... It's food, it's clothing, it's all the magazines that come under the heading of things looking simple. Men's magazines don't seem… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
They're coming out of high school exhausted. The pressure in high school is killing these kids. By the time they get to college, they… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
Feminism wasn’t supposed to make us miserable. It was supposed to make us free; to give women the power to shape their fortunes and… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
We must...forge partnerships with those around us, and begin to dismantle the myth of solitary perfection. — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
If two people have a couple of kids, somebody does have to take care of the kids. Somebody does have to cook dinner; somebody… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
