Feeling guilty Quote by Debora Spar
“'Maybe' is what gets us into trouble, because I think constantly women are saying I'll try to do it, maybe I'll do it, I'll do it if I can," and then they're feeling guilty when inevitably they can't do everything.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Women's Empowerment Podcast, 2022
The word “maybe” creates indecision, leading to guilt when expectations aren’t met.
In simple terms: Indecision fuels guilt when we overpromise.
Key Takeaway
Commit only to what you can realistically achieve.
Themes
commitment
guilt
self‑expectation
Mood
reflective
motivational
Type
self‑help
inspirational
When to use this quote
- career planning
- personal goals
- mental health
- coaching
Key Concepts
behavioral economics
gender studies
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you set realistic expectations?
- What role does “maybe” play in your decision making?
A Different Perspective
Over‑commitment can also protect against missed opportunities.
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