“To think of humans as freedom-loving, you must be ready to view nearly all of history as a mistake.” — John Gray Copy Share Image
“Humanism is not science, but religion - the post-Christian faith that humans can make a world better than any in which they… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“Histories of morality are rarely written in order to inform the reader.” — John Gray Copy Share Image
“If you believe that humans are animals, there can be no such thing as the history of humanity, only the lives of… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“The success of a relationship is solely dependent on two factors: a man's ability to listen lovingly and respectfully to a woman's feelings, and… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“Men and women arguing in this way hurt not only their feelings but also their relationship. Just as communication is the most important element… — John Gray Copy Share Image
Just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“The calls of birds and the traces left by wolves to mark off their territories are no less forms of language than the sings… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“The good life is not found in dreams of progress,but in coping with tragic contingencies.We have been reared on religions and philosophies that deny… — John Gray Copy Share Image
To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his… — John Gray Copy Share Image
We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“We think our actions express our decisions. But in nearly all of our life, willing decides nothing. We cannot wake up or fall asleep,… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“Life was indeed cruel; but it was better to glorify the Will than deny it.” — John Gray Copy Share Image
That love motivates you to cooperate, respect, appreciate, cherish, and admire that person. — John Gray Copy Share Image
“Although feelings of attraction are automatic, in order to sustain attraction in a personal relationship we must also be skillful in presenting ourselves in… — John Gray Copy Share Image
When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom. — John Gray Copy Share Image
“If there is anything unique about the human animal, it is that it has the ability to grow knowledge at an accelerating rate while… — John Gray Copy Share Image
To love someone is to acknowledge the goodness of who they are. Through loving a person we awaken their awareness of their own innate… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“Today we have made a fetish of choice; but a chosen death is forbidden. Perhaps what distinguishes humans from other animals is that humans… — John Gray Copy Share Image
