“Long after the traces of the human animal have disappeared, many of the species it is bent on destroying will still be… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“Today, for the mass of humanity, science and technology embody 'miracle, mystery, and authority'. Science promises that the most ancient human fantasies will at last be realized. Sickness and ageing will be abolished; scarcity and poverty will be no more; the species will become immortal. Like Christianity in the past, the modern cult of science lives on the hope of… — John Gray Copy Share
“Humanism is not science, but religion - the post-Christian faith that humans can make a world better than any in which they have so far lived. In pre-Christian Europe is was taken for granted that the future would be like the past. Knowledge and invention might advance, but ethics would remain much the same. History was a series of cycles,… — John Gray Copy Share
“Humans think they are free, conscious beings, when in truth they are deluded animals. At the same time they never cease trying… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“If you believe that humans are animals, there can be no such thing as the history of humanity, only the lives of… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“A glance at any human should be enough to dispel any notion that it is the work of an intelligent being.” — John Gray Copy Share Image
“The success of a relationship is solely dependent on two factors: a man's ability to listen lovingly and respectfully to a woman's feelings, and… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“Men and women arguing in this way hurt not only their feelings but also their relationship. Just as communication is the most important element… — John Gray Copy Share Image
Just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“The calls of birds and the traces left by wolves to mark off their territories are no less forms of language than the sings… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“The good life is not found in dreams of progress,but in coping with tragic contingencies.We have been reared on religions and philosophies that deny… — John Gray Copy Share Image
To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his… — John Gray Copy Share Image
We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave… — John Gray Copy Share Image
“We think our actions express our decisions. But in nearly all of our life, willing decides nothing. We cannot wake up or fall asleep, remember or forget our dreams, summon or banish our thoughts, by deciding to do so. When we greet someone on the street we just act, and there is no actor standing behind what we do. Our… — John Gray Copy Share
“Life was indeed cruel; but it was better to glorify the Will than deny it.” — John Gray Copy Share Image
That love motivates you to cooperate, respect, appreciate, cherish, and admire that person. — John Gray Copy Share Image
“Although feelings of attraction are automatic, in order to sustain attraction in a personal relationship we must also be skillful in presenting ourselves in… — John Gray Copy Share Image
When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom. — John Gray Copy Share Image
