While you can't keep your heart from getting broken, you can stop breaking your own heart...once you realize the difference between what you can control and what you can't, and that it's far, far more fun to lavish all that… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
It was a life with purpose. And it was also a lot of fun. Fishing is fun. Hiking up mountains is fun. Building a wall out of river rocks dug up from the bottom of a glacial lake is not… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
Resisting and avoiding pain sucks energy-and time. The more you let yourself feel those minute-and-a-half hells, the quicker you'll start feeling those minute-and-a-half happinesses. — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
“Pain only seems scary while you're waiting for it to happen. After it does, it's just hurt and recovery.” — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
I turned what was a wonderful case of self-reliance into a case of self-exile. Which is not uncommon, I think, in people who grow… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
I wasn't in a position that some other memoirists are, dealing with families who fed them meth, or kidnapped them, or did something that… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
It feels like people talk a lot, in their relationships and in therapy. But my family wasn't like that. My dad wasn't and I… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
The minute I landed back in Alaska, it was back to hip boots and fish guts. This cultural flipping wasn't easy - especially on… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
Often, I think that my brothers were the reason I didn't do something really stupid in my teenage years; I didn't want to disappoint… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
My natural inclination is to think in scenes. So that's how I write, and the issue for me is usually: what to compress for… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
The tough thing is how to cultivate a life where the paramecium of happiness gets a lot of chances to get out and swim… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
There's a kind of intimacy that happens between a mother and an only child. Which only gets more intimate when it's between a mother… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
My dad felt pretty strongly that I know about the basic workings of a plane and so he taught me how to read and… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
Penning an advice column for the literary website The Rumpus, [Strayed] worked anonymously, using the pen name Sugar, replying to letters from readings suffering… — Leigh Newman Copy Share Image
![“Penning an advice column for the literary website The Rumpus, [Strayed] worked anonymously, using the pen name Sugar, replying to letters from readings suffering everything from loveless marriages to abusive, drug-addicted brothers to disfiguring illnesses. The result: intimate, in-depth essays…” quote by Leigh Newman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/e91/leigh-newman-15257_abusive_penning-an-advice-column-for-the-literar_645510.jpg)