“Some children grow up with parents whi have their own strong attachment issues: they experience their parents as sometimes emotionally available, sometimes scared, and sometimes even scary. This variation is confusing and frightening, and these children are unable to find… — Leslie Becker-Phelps Copy Share Image
“Some children perceive their parents as inconsistently available. It could be because the parents are unavoidably focused on pressing life situations or on their… — Leslie Becker-Phelps Copy Share Image
“Some children grow up with parents whi have their own strong attachment issues: they experience their parents as sometimes emotionally available, sometimes scared, and… — Leslie Becker-Phelps Copy Share Image
“Children are motivated to stay close to their parents, whom they perceive as a safe haven. And children are motivated to explore the world… — Leslie Becker-Phelps Copy Share Image
“Feeling emotional pain and understanding how you maintain problematic patterns do not tell you how to be different or automatically establish healthier patterns. This… — Leslie Becker-Phelps Copy Share Image
“As with almost everything else in life, you learn about relationships through experience. And since your first serious relationship began as an infant with… — Leslie Becker-Phelps Copy Share Image