Child Quote by Leslie Becker-Phelps
““Children are motivated to stay close to their parents, whom they perceive as a safe haven. And children are motivated to explore the world away from their parents, whom they perceive as a secure base. When all goes well, children learn that they can have closeness and autonomy.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Developmental Psychology Textbook, 2015
Children seek both closeness for parents and independence, learning that they can have both security and autonomy.
In simple terms: Kids want love and freedom together.
Key Takeaway
Balance support with freedom.
Themes
attachment
autonomy
development
Mood
warm
encouraging
Type
advice
educational
When to use this quote
- parenting
- education
- child counseling
Key Concepts
Secure base theory
parental influence
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you foster both safety and independence?
- What boundaries help children explore safely?
A Different Perspective
Children may feel conflicted when support is inconsistent.
